DISPLACED ENERGY
"The people you're giving all your energy to.. on your way up, will they give as much or any of their energy to you on your way down?" By ObyGraceNneka.
Hello everyone🙋🏽♀️, it's been "a minute" since my last post. How are you all? Great I pray!🙏
So today, I want to chat about "ENERGY"... your energy!
Question to ask yourself today...the people I'm giving 70 to 100% of my energy, are they the right people to be giving that much of my energy to....?
What do I mean by "energy"?
What am I talking about?
I'm talking about OUR time, OUR love, OUR attention, OUR availability, OUR morning or day or evening or night, OUR money, OUR help/aid, OUR support, OUR advise, OUR knowledge and skills and expertise, OUR laughter and joy, OUR happy news, OUR social time, OUR holiday time, OUR life journey, etc 🤷🏽♀️.
Alot of times, we neglect our loved ones...the people that truly deeply love and care for us. We take them for granted... their loyalty, support, attention. We expect them to always be there for us when we need them, when the people we've devoted all our energy to including the world had turned their back on us, even though we're hardly or never been there for them.
Ask yourself, "these people I'm devoting 70 to 100% of my energy to, would they be there for me when am old and frail...or when everything goes south for me"?
I am not saying we should not give our energy to people outside this bubble. What I'm saying is:
1: do not neglect the ones who have always been their for you and will always be there for you....in your pursuit for fame, outside attention, greatness, wealth, friendship, fortune, recognition etc
2: do not share all your energy with others and leave the ones who truly care about you with nothing
3: be respectful, courteous, kind, loving, understanding, attentive, honest, patient, present....for they are the shoulders upon which you stand tall and strong
4: treat them how you would love to be treated when you have nothing or when your old and feeble
5: Give a greater portion of your energy to them.
Give 50% to yourself (because if you are depleted of energy, you can't give anything to anyone), 30 to 40% to the ones who truly deeply care about you...your dreams..your goals...your health...your welfare and would do anything to care and protect you, 10 to 20% to the world.
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